If marriages are made in heaven then love stories are surely made on earth (I am talking about real life love stories, not the hindi movie types). How else can you explain two people having nothing in common except for lonliness and a broken heart each falling in love with each other. The key word here is broken heart. Both had a past and I did not expect at least one of them to fall in love ever again. I thought that person was going to go in for the thing that was made in heaven, but arranged by parents (Some people call it arranged marriage). This love story could also turn out to be the same, who knows. But as they say, "Miya biwi razi to kya karega kazi".
I on a personal front am strictly against love and relationships of the love kind. No, don't get me wrong, I have nothing against love, I think it is a wonderful thing and it makes the world around you go round. But, unlike movies, where almost everything goes well, I have not seen 1 successful love story that has ended the way the couple wanted to, except of course my own brother. But then again, I never witnessed the love story. 90% of the time the couple faced only sorrow at the end of it.
Well, accepted that the duration of the courtship is that of pure bliss, but then as the saying goes, "all is well that ends well" and not "all is well that goes well but does not end well". So I still believe that the end being good is the thing that matters and I am still waiting to see a happy ending. I hope I see it soon. After all seeing is believing.
My thoughts before starting to write the blog and while writing the same have changed drastically, now I do see a point of contention between the two. Like the saying goes, opposite poles attract. They sure do. I have seen lots and lots of examples of the same.
You may be thinking by now, what is this guy talking about? What does he want to communicate? Well its simple. I only want to say, think before you leap. Do fall in love, but take it forward if both the parties are convinced and sure that you are going to take it to its logical and happy conclusion. Marriage.
And yes finally to add - "pyar karte nahin ho jaata hai". Agreed, per "Pyar ko aage badhana padta hai, khudh nahin badtha". So be causious to rise in love, not fall in love.
PS: Thanks pankaj for the last line. :)
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hmmmm I have a lot of comments for this one bro... but on second thoughts let me keep all of that for offline talks :)
Gud one bro!!
Not impressive Libin. Just rise more and then write the same blog again! Surely it will do more justice to this theme. If possible, will analyse deeply this matter with you..
Stumbled upon you blog.
Seems like you have changed a lot from the time I knew you.
I like the line : "Rise in love, not fall in love"
Libin! It's me, just using Jibin's i.d. Man ur pessimistic! I must say that I'm a firm believer of 'falling in love' and 'being in love'. And no not just because of my 'shatory' but because I believe that unless you experience love or anything else in life, you cannot know or make judgements about it.
I also disagree about 'thinking before leaping'...in love you should never think...love is the one thing in life which should not be thought out. Whether you succeed or fail has nothing to do with love. That is faith...Love is a blind and helpless feeling and if it is left that way it remains true and pure...Also I believe love is not for everyone...it is for those who are less cautious and not afraid...
As far as nibhanay ki baat hai that is again not love as much as it is trust. Love is a package, you take it or leave it.
As far as an example, we are here! And as my neighbour says 'in today's world 6 years of marriage is a lifetime'.
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